tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458692.post7794537068680587617..comments2020-03-26T05:45:20.621-05:00Comments on Living Recovery: DeskDivahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04396478098886912857noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458692.post-44444483993013552822011-02-23T01:52:40.871-06:002011-02-23T01:52:40.871-06:00Your answer is posted at http://livingrecovery.blo...Your answer is posted at http://livingrecovery.blogspot.com/2011/02/answer-friend-asked-really-good.html. :)DeskDivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04396478098886912857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458692.post-29489469068583575672011-02-22T20:17:27.101-06:002011-02-22T20:17:27.101-06:00I've heard you discuss this behavior as self-p...I've heard you discuss this behavior as self-protective in the past, and I've always been puzzled by that terminology. How is it self-protective? Against what (or whom) are you protecting yourself? Are there healthier alternatives available that will give you the same - or at least adequate - protection?Lars D. H. Hedborhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06943440398890692578noreply@blogger.com